Getting past...

Let downs are an unfortunate part of life. But the upside to a let down is the fact that you had someplace to fall from. The hope for a chance of better days ahead is sometimes all that we have to barely keep our heads above the water. Whatever the problem, dilemma, obstacle, be assured that your fate is well within your control. Keep a clear mind and an open heart, never letting go of hope. Never let a negative outweigh the positive in your lives. When in your darkest hour, fight like you've never fought before and come back out on the other side a survivor and stronger warrior. Refuse defeat, push through, keep breathing and live.

It gets so much better.

Promise.

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Now I'm heels over head...

It's a brand new journey that we've decided to embark on with each other. I often think about the people that we meet in life. At one point, you were a child and knew nothing about me. You were more interested in shiny toys and coloring than what it felt like to be in my arms. You were unaware that somewhere down the line you'd meet a man that would do nearly anything to see you smile.

This is the man you've become that I'm falling for and it's been so effortless. No arguments, no emotional complications. You're a perfect dream that I refuse to wake from. You'll be the greatest example of how perfect things can go. 10.27.2010

Slow or fast, I'm just glad to be walking next to you.

Gross.

I'm not sure if this occurs in the straight world, but I'm super disgusted in the way men act in the gay realm.

Its astonishing how lonely some people can get and for some odd reason, if you're lonely enough, you feel justified to be disrespectful and shady.

You want nothing to do with him until he's in a relationship. You judge yourself against his new choice and if you deem yourself more appealing, you try your luck at him....why? Is it too much to ask that you respect the decision that he's made and let him be happy?

Gay men,

Stop being so damn trifling. Stop "stealing" each others boyfriends. Stop cheating on the good men that invest themselves into you. Stop being the poison that's destroying our integrity as a whole. Love someone and work on that love until it's everything that you dream about.

***this is not about me, It's something that a friend of mine is going through and I'm so over the attitudes that a lot of gay men when it comes to monogamy and commitment. Call me old fashioned, but cheating is still a BAD THING. It's not cute to flirt with someone else because you that it'll get a rise out of your boyfriend. Be good keepers of your lovers heart. Cherish the fact that you've made a connection with someone and stop being so damn self destructive. Love isn't easy, but its WORTH the fight. Try harder to make it work through maturity and honesty. If your relationship has reached it's end and is beyond repair, BE A MAN and tell the man you've been claiming to love. Treat each other better.***

20 promises to a man worthy of change.

You get me.

It's weird, but you do.

In many ways, you're just like me.

You're different. So this time around, I will be too.

1.) I will never take advantage of you

2.) I will never misuse your love

3.) I will take care of your heart

4.) I will be honest

5.) I will be faithful

6.) I will be selfless

7.) I will be slow to anger

8.) I will be understanding

9.) I will keep an open mind

10.) I will hold your hand

11.) I will be there for you when no one else will

12.) I will be the shoulder to cry on

13.) I will be the ear to listen

14.) I will be gentle

15.) I will pig out with you

16.) I will get smashed with you

17.) I take care of you when you're sick

18.) I will never keep a secret

19.) I will never speak ill of you

20.) I will love you

Swedish fish and a Hilter threesome.

I like you.

Can we please just talk about...

Closet cases.

I'm absolutely in love with the idea of you fucking with me every chance that you get. The kissing, the hugs, the cuddling. Please, please just come out. Not just for me, but for the fact that you will feel so sooo much better about life when you're honest with yourself. Seriously, I cannot take much more of this, I'm going to kill myself...or you. Somebody's gotta go.

Sigma Nu.

I wonder if your entire fraternity are douche suckling tools or just this chapter? Seriously, this weekend was a disaster due to your house's inability to be adults. I get it, having a small penis infuriates you and you have to drink excessively and fight someone, but that doesn't change much on campus now does it? No, we are still number one on campus, Greek week champs, holders of the President's cup and we have never rapped anyone (no, seriously, as funny as that may and shouldn't be, it actually happened a few years back) Grow up. Be men. Teach your pledges to be men and to have some respect for their campus, women and selves and POSSIBLY you can one day hold your heads up when you walk around campus knowing that you actually are a respected institution.